Comments on: One compulsive fucker…

By: Immi

Immi — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 14:54:00 +0000

@CC – Nothing wrong with religious reasons for waiting. And sometimes, much more healthy than alternatives, I expect.

@Bradley – I’m with you there. I can’t imagine going back to that type of life at this point either. If nothing else, I’d die of overexertion.

@Tamara – Sex is screwed up some way or other for most of us who were sexually abused. Bleh. I agree there’s no normal/right/wrong per se. I don’t regret having done it. I’m sort of amazed, though, especially that I got out of it without having been done in by it.

By: Raspberry

Raspberry — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 13:40:49 +0000

I was quite promiscuous before I married – at 17 LOL.
It just never occured to me to say no -
and the one time I did,
lets just say it didn’t end well.

Now I’m getting divorced,
and have fallen straight into another relationship -
in which I plan on having lots and lots of sex! LOL

Raspberrys last blog post..Eating, drinking, over-thinking

By: Tamara

Tamara — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 00:55:48 +0000

I'm like Bradley, this could have been my story. Yours is the second post in the last couple of days that makes me think I should write about this. I would have sex with anyone as long as I was not dating them. If I was dating them, then I refused. Go figure. Sex was so damn screwed up for me because of sexual abuse and all. I really thought that when guys wanted to have sex with me that it showed they approved of me, you know, liked me. Oh well, I hated myself for a long time for it. Now, I know I was just doing whatever I could to try to console myself for a shitty childhood that lacked love and caring. Sorry, I really went off there. Guess I DO need to write a post about this. BTW, I don't think there is a normal or a right or wrong. We are all just doing what we need to do to feel okay with ourselves and life. It doesn't do any good to look back and regret. I just look forward these days! Tamaras last blog post..Quick Update

By: bradley

bradley — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 00:32:00 +0000

Wow. Your story sounds like my story. I've only been in four serious relationships in my life, but easily had sex with hundreds. It was not uncommon to have sex with three different men in one night. Why? Because each time one left I felt a big hole in my soul and wanted to feel "loved" again. It was a crazy time in my life and I joke about it now, but I'm with my one and only now for almost four years and I can't imagine it ever being any other way again. bradleys last blog post..Damn Depression is Back Again

By: ClinicallyClueless

ClinicallyClueless — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 22:30:27 +0000

Okay, for religious reasons, I waited until I was married at the age of 31. Boy, was the year long engagement tough. We had to keep pushing the line further and further back until I think we could hold hands only and kiss goodbye. But, we waited until our second night together...too tired the wedding night!!! ClinicallyCluelesss last blog post..Surprise!!! GO! Smell the flowers!!